Barnett & Leuty, PC Attorneys and Mediators at Law

11824 Jollyville Road, Suite 500

Austin, Texas 78759

(512) 336-1529

info@civil-law.com

11824 Jollyville Road, Suite 500

Austin, Texas 78759

(512) 336-1529

info@civil-law.com

Avoid Family Feuds When Distributing Assets Part Two

 

 

Avoid Family Feuds

Our last blog post offered some tips for avoiding family feuds when distributing assets of a family member. It’s important to choose your executor carefully.The executor generally exercises discretion in distributing personal and household items. So it’s important to name a trustworthy person with a fair, impartial, reasonable personality — especially if there are sibling rivalry issues. You want someone who will fulfill your intentions. The right executor can reduce the chance of litigation.

No matter who you name as an executor, the individual will appreciate clear, written instructions.

Here is a “Textbook Example of Headaches, Heartaches and Expense”
Without specific estate instructions concerning asset distribution, family members can be left guessing what a deceased person would want — or decide what to do themselves.

In one case, a Michigan probate court had to step in and resolve bitter disputes by distributing numerous items. The court called it “a textbook example of the headaches, heartaches, and expense that can result from inadequate estate planning.”

Facts of the case: According to court documents, Barbara Waters was divorced and living with Kevin Goethe when she died. She had three children from a previous marriage and he had one son.

Goethe built and furnished the house. When the couple moved in together, they combined household furnishings and purchased items together and individually.

Goethe proposed and purchased an engagement ring but the couple never married. “Ms. Waters was diagnosed with cancer and told Mr. Goethe it would be unfair of her to marry him because of her illness,” according to court documents.

Waters made out a handwritten (holographic) will and signed it “Mom.” Upon review, the court stated the document did not meet the state’s legal requirements and was therefore invalid.

Weeks after Waters’ death, her children moved out of Goethe’s home. He packed some belongings and left them on the front porch for the children to pick up. He was not home when they arrived. The children gained entry to the house through another relative. They removed “almost everything they thought was their mother’s.”

Goethe testified the house was “ransacked.” Family photographs were removed. One photo was ripped in two, with Goethe’s image returned to the frame and Waters’ image taken.

The Probate Court called the children’s actions “offensive.” It then made decisions to divide the items, including:

  • A jewelry chest and small kitchenware had to be returned to the estate by Goethe. However, some jewelry items were determined to be gifts from Waters so Goethe got to keep them.
  • Photos were ordered returned or duplicated at estate expense.
  • A family pet was claimed by both sides. Goethe was awarded the Maltese Terrier “in lieu of compensation for items which either disappeared from his house or items to which he might have had a reasonable claim.”

The judge stated the court could not adopt either “extreme position” — that everything in the house belonged to Goethe or that the children were entitled to anything connected with their mother.

He added: “there is a difference between saying or writing down what you hope will happen and taking the proper legal steps to assure that a court will enforce your intentions.” (Waters, Probate Court for the County of Marquette, No. 10-31879-DE)

This article only provides basic answers to some of the questions involved in the distribution of assets. Consult with your estate planning adviser about your situation. By planning ahead, you can avoid battle lines being drawn after your death over possessions accumulated during your life.